"Daddy" Haskins

Robert Haskins, “Daddy”, as he was called by all who knew him, was an old man by the time I first met him although he wasn't as old as I am today. When I was 10 or 12 years old, Daddy came to live with my Grandpa and Grandma Harris in Coneville. He lived with them for three or four years since he could no longer live alone and had no one to help. Daddy lived with my grandparents up to the week before he died at the County Farm at Coudersport. 

My Grandparents, Ernest and Lottie Harris, on back porch of their home.
"Daddy" Haskins lived with them for a few years.

Ernest and Lottie Harris Home on Route 44, Coneville, PA

As a younger man, Daddy had worked in logging and wood cutting camps, filed saws and old axes, and done other little jobs to pay for his board. By the time I met him, he had many interesting life stories for a boy my age. He told how he skidded logs with oxen and horses, and how he had been a riverman floating logs down the Oswayo Creek every spring from Coneville, PA to Weston Mills, NY. It would take two to three days to float down the creek to the mill. After they got there, the rivermen would walk back to Coneville to float more logs down the creek until the water became too low to float them. 

The last job Daddy had for several years before living with my grandparents was at the chemical factory in Coneville. The factory closed in 1940 or 1941. It made charcoal, chemicals, wood alcohol, and acetate. The men who worked on the acetate floor wore wooden shoes because it was so hot it would burn their feet. The wooden shoes fit over their regular shoes. There were huge furnaces where they burned the wood to make the products. It took a lot of teams of horses to haul the chemical wood which was all hardwood and was cut 56 inches long. Many farmers hauled it in the winter when they weren’t busy in the fields. They cut and hauled it by the cord. A man who was willing to work could cut one and a half cord of wood and stack it in a day. He was paid $1.50 per cord, cut and piled. 

Daddy’s wife had died before I ever met him, but he had a son and daughter. It seems that in those days everyone had a nickname. My father was called “Skinny” Harris by some people. Others had nicknames like “Stub”, “Baldy”, “Curly”, “Shorty” and “Chub” given to them. Daddy’s son Herman was nicknamed “Moony” because he had a full round face that was reddened by his abuse of alcohol. It’s sad, but true, that both Daddy’s son Moony and daughter Bessie were terribly addicted to alcohol. 

Moony worked many years at the chemical factory and often came to work under the influence of his drink. One day he came to work in worse condition than usual. When Clayton R. “Stub” Lawton, the superintendent of the plant, received a phone call that higher management from New York City was going to take a plant tour that day, he pulled Moony aside. Knowing Moony’s condition, as a good neighbor and friend hoping to avoid problems, he told Moony to take the rest of the day off and to go on home early. 

Supposing that Moony had followed orders and left, Stub went about the business of leading the company higher-ups on the tour. To his surprise, Moony appeared and walked up to the Big Cheese and started mouthing off. 

The top officer of the company turned to Stub, “This man is drunk. Fire him!” 

Moony pushed his stomach up against the Big Cheese and said, “If you think I’M drunk, you ought to see my sister Bessie!” and walked away. 

For years after that, when someone wanted to impress another coworker, they would repeat the words, “If you think I’M drunk, you ought to see my sister Bessie!” 

There are two comments I'd like to add concerning this story. 

1. Moony went back to work the next day and worked there until the plant was closed years later. His friend had his back. “A person with unfaithful friends soon comes to ruin.  But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother." –Proverbs 18:24 (NIRV)

2. After years of battling the addiction to alcohol, Bessie became a Believer in Christ, got the victory over the addiction, and died a Christian.  "But let us give thanks to God!  He gives us the victory because of what our Lord Jesus Christ has done." 1 Corinthians 15;57 (NIRV) 

--Darell (and Jan)

The Goat Man

Archie Davis first appeared in Hemlock Hollow in the late 1930s.  Where he came from, nobody ever knew. However, it was rumored that he had come from Bingham Center. He lived in the empty barn on the old Charlie Day farm four miles from town. After living there for several years, the barn was torn down, so he moved into an old granary with a few boards over the one corner for shelter. He had a few heads of goats that he milked and ate. That is how he got the name of the "Goat Man". Some claimed Archie was an Indian because his face was smooth and he didn’t shave. 

Archie would come to town once a month with a grain sack to carry home his monthly supplies. The general store owners, Stanley and Helen Pearsall, told me that in the wintertime Archie would arrive around 8:00 a.m., about an hour after the store had opened. He would stand for hours in the same spot without changing his position or saying a word to anyone. About 4:00 p.m. he would start home on foot, carrying his supplies in the sack slung over his shoulder. His monthly supplies were always the same and always ordered in the following order: 3 packages of Red Man chewing tobacco, 3 boxes of unsalted soda crackers, oatmeal, and two or three other small items.

After Archie had lived there several years, one summer day a nice Cadillac drove up in front of the store. A nicely dressed woman came into the store. She told Stanley that she lived in Wellsville, NY and was Archie Davis’ sister. She told him that if Archie ever needed anything to give it to him and then send her the bill. Stanley said that Archie never used that privilege.

The townspeople always believed Archie would be eaten up by his dogs since all they had to eat was what they could find in the woods. Hunters told that when they killed a deer and dragged it out, the dogs would follow their track, back to where they had killed and gutted the deer, and then eat the innards. Some of Archie’s dogs’ mouths were full of porcupine quills. The game commissioner came one year and shot 33 dogs that had no license.

After many years of living up Hemlock Hollow in very poor conditions, Archie moved to Coneville. He lived there three or four years in an old chicken house just west of where Torrey’s Cheese, Ice Cream and Pizza Shop are now. Rev. David Derk, pastor of Oswayo and Coneville at the time, had made friends with Archie when he lived in Hemlock Hollow. One day he stopped in to see Archie in Coneville and found him dead.

--Darell

This story from Dad's trove of memories awakens some of my own memories. As young children, visiting during the summer, my grandparents would take us for Sunday drives on the back roads of Potter County. Occasionally, we would drive past the Goat Man's place up Hemlock Hollow and they would tell us how he lived alone out in the woods. We would peer out the windows in hopes of seeing him or his goats. I don't think we ever saw him (he may have moved by then), but it was always a marvel to me how someone could survive without anyone else around.

"A friend loves at all times.  They are there to help when trouble comes."  Proverbs 17:17 (NIRV)

--Jan

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My Thanksgiving Memories

Childhood memories of Thanksgiving Day at 41 Maple Street, Oswayo are filled with a sense of excitement and joy. It was a day for the family to gather and to get caught up on one another's lives. Since it was a three-hour journey for us to Grandma's house, this particular holiday was sometimes the only day of the year that we would get to see the cousins, aunts, and uncles all in one place. The little house built in the early 1900s would be bustling and bursting at the seams once everyone got there--all twenty of us. We have been blessed that everyone was always glad to see each other. According to my childhood recollection, although there were occasionally heated discussions, there wasn't any relative that made the holiday difficult or uncomfortable. 

Mom and Dad would either pack us up the day before to spend the night sharing a couch with a sister at Grandma's, or wake us early the morning of to make the trek, sometimes in snowy blizzards. The trip seemed so long. To pass the time we would sleep, taking turns to stretch out on the backseat or curl up on the floor, a sister on each side of the "hump" of the car (no seatbelts). It was always cozy and warm with blankets and pillows.

When we got restless, Mom would have us sing. We would sing hymns by heart like "Power In The Blood", "Showers Of Blessing", and "When The Roll Is Called Up Yonder". A special treat would be when Dad led heartily in his tone-deaf singing voice with "What can wash away my sin?" while Mom and we girls would answer with "Nothing but the blood of Jesus". He usually had to be coaxed into singing his solo because he knew he couldn't carry a tune! As we drove through the Kinzua Dam area, snow hanging on the trees, Mom would sing "Over the river and through the woods to Grandmother's house we go..." We girls would merrily chime in.

All the way there we would be on the lookout for bear, deer, turkeys, bunnies, and other wildlife--counting to see who could spy the most to tell Grandpa about them when we arrived. Midway, we usually stopped in Smethport for gas, to use the restroom, and if we were lucky--a bottle of Pepsi-cola (Dad's all-time preference)! The closer we got to Oswayo, Dad would remark about how the hills were getting taller and taller, reminding us to watch for "Old Baldy" in Millport where Great-grandpa Brizzee had helped clear the trees many years ago. Once we made it to Coneville, Mom always scolded Dad for speeding up the last few miles "home". We all knew he was anxious to get there, as were we. Once the car came to a stop in the driveway, we were all smothered in Grandma's hugs and kisses. 

Preparations would start days before. All the womenfolk would bake up loaves of bread and favorite pies. My grandmother would get up in the wee hours of the morning to put the stuffed turkey into the oven and to peel potatoes. By the time everyone got there, all the windows were steamed over and the house was filled with tantalizing fragrances. Tables would be set up in the living room, leaving very little wiggle room for rambunctious grandchildren to skirt around. Grandma would put a large pedestaled glass bowl of red grapes and a relish tray of pickles and olives on the main table. After everyone had nibbled at them, Grandma would fain surprise that they were gone before we even sat down for dinner! Once the turkey was roasted and ready, my Grandpa or Uncle Bob (or both) would be called to the kitchen to carve the bird(s). Like vultures, we children would try to snitch the crispy skin and tasty morsels while they worked.

The table would be laden with lots of delicious steaming dishes. Grandpa would sit at the head of the table with his back to the large picture window and lead us all in giving thanks to God for family, food, and blessings. One thing about my Grandpa Harris was when giving thanks to anyone, he always made it more personal by using the first-person pronouns "I thank you" or "We thank you". Once the prayer was ended, the table hummed with our voices as dishes were passed. We enjoyed turkey, stuffing ("dressing"), mashed potatoes with gravy, squash, green beans, applesauce, cranberry sauce, bread (white, banana-nut, zucchini), fruit salad tossed in real whipped-cream, jams and apple butter, and pies (pumpkin, mincemeat, apple, rhubarb, and cherry). The end result was always feeling stuffed and lethargic with grateful hearts.

With so many crammed in the house, it would get stuffy and hot. The front and back doors would get propped open to let in cool air, but both adults and children would get a little stir-crazy. While some might sit in the parlor to watch the Thanksgiving Day parade or a football game on TV, others ventured outside to take walks, climb trees, build snowmen, go sled riding, or shoot guns for some target practice. Sometimes we would gather around Grandma's piano to sing or at the tables to play games like Scrabble, Checkers, Gin Rummy, or Flinch. 

At the end of the day, we were all tuckered out and sad to say good-byes. Our family usually spent at least another night before returning home since we had to travel the farthest. However, when it came time for us to leave, Grandma and Grandpa would stand in the window or on the front porch to wave us off. She would have tears streaming down her face, and wipe them with the handkerchief she waved in the air as a farewell. We would watch out the car window, waving to her until we were passing the church, going out of town, and could no longer see her standing there waving the hanky. As children, we didn't understand the tears, but we did understand love. 

Sadly, not everyone can claim such wonderful childhood memories. In truth, even my memories have been candy-coated to a certain degree with my mind allowing unpleasant ones to fade into shadows. For many people, the holidays are filled with painful, unforgettable memories and scars. If this has been your experience, I pray God will bless you with better memories and experiences this year and in the future. May this Thanksgiving be one when all of us focus on the greatest blessing of all--Jesus Christ! 

"Give thanks no matter what happens. God wants you to thank him because you believe in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIRV) 

On behalf of Dad and myself, I wish you all a Blessed Thanksgiving! 

--Jan

The Hermit

A man named Carl Pineo was known as "The Hermit" by the local people. He lived a mile and a half up Zale Lawton Hollow outside of Oswayo (three-fourths mile beyond the old schoolhouse and the Po Car Camp, formerly the old Rufus Johnston farm). He lived alone in an old shack about a mile from the nearest neighbor. I don't believe he was ever married.

About once every two weeks Carl would walk to town to get his mail which was mostly magazines and weekly newspapers and to get a few groceries. Other than those visits to town, he seldom saw anyone.  He may have seen a hunter or two during hunting season, but he kept to himself most of the time.

For a time, Carl would also come to town to celebrate Memorial Day and the Fourth of July.  Year on the Fourth of July, he got drunk while in town and fell asleep on the hotel porch.  While he was knocked out, some mischievous young men wrapped him in red, white, and blue crepe paper decorations and soaked him with a water hose.  When he woke up, the dyes from the decorations had left him colored red, white, and blue.  He never came to town for the holiday again.

This kind of treatment of someone shows a lack of compassion and is just plain meanness.  At the time, as a young man, I didn't understand this and found the story amusing.  However, the Apostle Paul admonishes us to "Love one another deeply.  Honor others more than yourselves" (Romans 12:10 NIRV).  May God fill us with love for others and show us how to honor others more than ourselves.  

--Darell (and Jan) 

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But For the Grace of God

The following are two memories that Dad has written to share with you.  As I read them, it impresses upon my heart to be thankful for all the blessings we enjoy and are often taken for granted in such an affluently evolved nation like the United States.  

The Gypsies

About every two or three years, someone would come to town with the message, “The gypsies are coming”.  It has been a long time since we have heard that in Oswayo.  I remember the gypsies usually entered Oswayo from the east and had special camping areas.  One campsite was across from the Wells Cemetery, next to the Fish Hatchery.  Another was up Deering Hollow by the creek near Coneville.  A third-place the gypsies would camp was on the flat in the woods by Topeka (at Clara Junction and Route 44).

The dictionary defines a gypsy as someone who belongs to a traveling group of people making a living by itinerant trade and fortune-telling.  These people are believed to have come from South Asia and speak the language of Romany that is related to Hindi.  

Entire families (about 15-20 in a group) came with horses and wagons, leading horses along behind them.  The group of gypsies would stay a week or two and then move on.  They sold or traded horses with the local people. They had the reputation of being dishonest in their dealings and of stealing when there was a chance.  They would enter the stores in large numbers, and people claimed that the women were experts in hiding bread and other merchandise under their long, full skirts and other clothing.  The townspeople were always glad to see them leave.
 
The Logging and Wood Cutting Camps

The logging and wood cutting camps were usually Italian, Hungarian or Polish.  They were usually honest and hard workers, but their living conditions were poor.  I knew a logging camp family whose girls, Geraldine and Mary, went to grade school with me.  The father’s name was Henry Aldrich (not the Henry Aldrich on the radio).  The family moved to Tyler Hollow from Deering Hollow near Coneville.  They lived up Tyler Hollow for two or three years, then moved over near Genesee and Hickox. It was four miles up the hollow from State Rte 244, but the girls walked down to the main road and back each night to attend school.  They were good girls, but very poor.  I always felt sorry for them.  The wives and mothers had very hard lives with no modern living conditions at the logging and wood-cutting camps.  Often, they had to carry water, wash clothes by hand, and had very little female companionship.

In those years, there was little or no government aid available to most families. The lives and hardships of those who have gone before us should never be forgotten.  May we be reminded that only by the grace of God do we live in this time and place in history.  Still, many around the world today experience similar or greater hardships.  Let us be grateful and compassionate!

"He who is gracious and lends a hand to the poor lends to the Lord, and the Lord will repay him for his good deed." Proverbs 19:7 Amplified Bible

--Darell (and Jan)

Falling Into Thanksgiving...

 Potter County--"God's Country"

Harris Garden, Oswayo, PA 1991

Coneville, PA facing Whitney Creek, 1991

Route 44, 1991

Coudersport, PA, view from the courthouse, 1991

Autumn colors are my favorites, so I love it when God paints the landscape with such beauty. There's no place like Potter County to enjoy it more! As the leaves change color and tumble from the heights of the trees, it's a great time for us to fall into thanksgiving for all the blessings the Creator, our Father God, has bestowed upon us. Already in northern Pennsylvania most of the leaves have fallen and the snow has begun to fall creating yet more awesome beauty, but I thought I would share these photos Mom took many years ago.  I don't imagine time has changed the beauty of fall at all!

Does anyone have some great autumn photographs of Potter County or other areas to share?

--Jan

What Are You Thankful for?

Here we are, already into November, the time of year when most Americans pause to think about what they have to be thankful for.  Time, nor space, would allow me to share all the things that I am thankful for.  However, I would like to share just a couple.

Carl Harris holding Darell "Bud", 1928

Lucille Harris holding Darell, 1928

First, I am thankful for parents who taught me that a disciplined life would provide more happiness than going along with the crowd.  One of my father's strong teachings was "Any old dead fish can swim downstream, but it takes a live fish to swim upstream".  My parents believed and lived lives that proved they practiced what they taught the child.  Someone has said, "I would rather see a sermon lived than hear one preached".  I would agree with that.

In addition, I am thankful for the Word of God and how it has blessed my life with security, peace, and assurance.  There are many passages and verses in the Bible which have changed my life.  However, let me give only two verses that have been precious over the years to me.  I remind myself of them almost every night in my prayer time before going to bed.  Psalm 31:14-15a in the Amplified Bible reads, "But as for me, I trust [confidently] in You and Your greatness, O Lord; I said, 'You are my God'.  My times are in Your hands".

I have found this passage stills my heart in whatever circumstance I am faced with in life.  I believe God will do the same for you.  If you have doubt that it will, pray for Him to help your unbelief.  

--Darell 

A Halloween Tick-Tack

Over the years, Halloween customs have changed a bit. Children still dress up in costumes and go door-to-door in the neighborhood, saying "trick or treat"; however, the only thing that seems to be expected is the "treat". You don't hear much about the "trick" option. It didn't use to be like this. People of all ages used to do all kinds of tricks on one another. Some tricks were more complicated with preparation and extensive planning while others were quite simple to pull off.

One popular trick that took little preparation was called a "tick-tack" that people would "hang" outside the window of someone's house. To make a tick-tack, all that is needed is an empty wooden thread spool, a nail or small rod, and a few feet of string. First, cut several notches around the edges on each end of the spool, and place the nail through the spool's center hole. Then, wrap the string tightly around the cylinder part of the spool. To hang the tick-tack, sneak up after dark to the window of a neighbor, hold the tick-tack by the nail, placing the notched edges of the spool against the glass, and pull the string quickly. As the spool spins on the nail, it makes a loud noise inside the house, startling whoever is inside! Run before they find out who did it!

If you don't have a wooden thread spool, you can find one like this at a craft store like Michael's.  

This is my rendition of a tick-tack following Dad's instructions.  I used an X-acto knife to carve out the notches, but I'm sure Dad would have used a jackknife.  I "hung" my tick-tack on the inside of one of my windows and got good results!

One Halloween, my brother Bob and his friend Hugh Pearsall were on their way to a drilling rig up Lawton Hollow. They happened to have a tick-tack in a pocket, so when they passed Ronald Pierce's house (now Jim Reynolds' home) and saw him sleeping in his chair near the window, they decided to use it. They crept up on the porch and hung it on the window while the tired man slept after a long day's work. As soon as the tick-tack rumbled and rattled on the window, Mr. Pierce jerked awake and came alive! It was so much fun that Bob and Hugh decided to hang the tick-tack on a couple more windows of the same home before going on their way.

Within a few minutes, they had done their third window and were heading to the road. Hugh asked Bob, "What if Mr. Pierce is outside?" Bob replied, "Just keep walking as if nothing happened." At that moment, Hugh saw Mr. Pierce standing by a tree in the yard. He gasped, "There he is!" and took off on a run up behind the schoolhouse with Mr. Pierce on his heels. As Hugh jumped across the little creek, he slipped and fell in. Mr. Pierce picked him up and dunked him several times in the cold mountain stream before letting him go.

In the meanwhile, Bob had decided there was no reason for him to stick around so he made a fast retreat down School Street and on home to Maple Street. It was only the next morning on the school bus that he learned of the ill fate of his friend.

Whenever I recall this incident, a Bible verse comes to mind. Proverbs 18:24 says, "There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother." This is referring to the Lord as a friend to us as Believers. Jesus Christ is the One that sticks closer than a brother. When all others fail us (even brothers and sisters), Jesus does not. He is totally reliable and faithful. 

Since we are to become more Christ-like in our daily walk with Him, shouldn't we also be a faithful friend to others?

-- Darell (and Jan)

School Days

"The Harris Barn"
Photo by Elaine Harris (c 1993)

As students settle back into a new school year, Oswayo bursts into beautiful fall colors.  Here's one of my favorite school stories, an excerpt from Dad's book, "Coming Full-Circle On Maple Street", pp 33-34.

Behind the Piano

Of all my teachers, my favorite one was Mrs. Mary Greenhill.  She was my seventh and eighth-grade teacher.  I think I learned more from her than any other teacher, although she kept me behind the piano for two years.

The upright piano sat diagonally in the corner of the schoolroom; my spot was there behind it.  She would let me come out for the class time when we had our lesson.  When finished, I would have to go back to the corner behind the piano.  The reason I had to sit there was that I could not keep from talking and disrupting the class. 

Even from behind the piano, I found ways to entertain my classmates.  When I was bored or getting restless, I would peek up over the top of the piano and make funny faces at the other students when the teacher wasn’t looking.  One day, I took the teacher’s turban winter hat that was hanging with her coat behind the piano and put it on my head before popping up.  It brought so many snickers from classmates that the teacher caught me in the act!

Despite all the classroom problems I gave her and the discipline she dealt out, I always felt she liked me anyway.

--Darell

Meet My Dad...

This is Dad... others refer to him as Bud, Uncle Bud, Grandpa, Great-Grandpa, Pastor, Preacher, or Rev.  His given name is Darell Harris.  I am Jan, the youngest one of three daughters that are blessed to call him Dad.  

Today, you will find Dad, at age 91, often in his recliner at my middle sister's home, watching baseball or FOX News on TV, eating popcorn, reading his Bible or a book.  Occasionally you'll find him taking a phone call from family or friends. This is a stage of life that is new to him and each of us girls.  It presents some tough adjustments and challenges for all of us, especially for him and for Sue and her husband who are his primary care-givers.  

Before coming to this rocking-chair stage, Dad has lived a full life.  He was born and raised in rural Potter County, Pennsylvania, and as he shared in his book, came full-circle to retire in his boyhood home in Oswayo.  The journey has taken him into Germany with the army, marriage, the oil fields, welding, fatherhood, and ultimately into full-time Christian ministry. 

His hobbies over the years have been reading, hunting, dogs, and driving and riding horses.  Let's not forget his love of storytelling. With a receptive audience, he can tell entertaining stories for hours!  Sometimes he has gotten so tickled over a story, the tears stream down his face as he struggles to get to the conclusion (those memories make me smile!😂).

No one would probably nominate him for canonization to sainthood because he, like all of us, has feet of clay and is not perfect.  As a father, he has been a strict authoritarian with a quick spouting temper, but I have never doubted that he loved and wanted the best for each of us.  I have countless memories of him, kneeling next to Mom at the sofa in prayer with tears streaming down his face in sincere intercession for their daughters and parishioners.  

As we grew up, he and Mom practiced Deuteronomy 6:5-9. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, and when you lie down and when you get up." Did they get it right all the time, every time? No, but they got it right enough times to bring it home to our hearts. The most important thing my parents did was to share Jesus Christ with me and show me how to trust and obey Him. I am literally, eternally grateful!

--Jan

Rocking Forward!

This is a new adventure for Dad and me!  Thank you for joining us as we launch a blog for the first time!  Neither of us knows much about blogging, so we, I mean more specifically, I, will learn as we go... please, bear with us!  

After writing his book, "Coming Full Circle on Maple Street", that went into print this past spring (2019), Dad has continued to remember and reminisce about more stories he heard or experienced that didn't get into the book.  As we share them, I bet you will agree that they are too interesting to pass up!  We plan to use this medium to share those stories, favorite excerpts from his book, Bible meditations, reflections, quotable quotes, and more.  Since this is a shared adventure, some posts will be Dad's, some will be mine, and others will be a combination of both.

The goal will be to post something at least once a week, so I hope you will be back to visit us regularly and respond with your own comments in dialog with us.